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Diana Medina Mendez described her son Marc's concerns about starting YAI's 26-week Independent Living Program (ILP) in Kew Gardens. Marc, who has autism, was anxious and "nervous about fitting in," she said.

 

That's where Traci Strumph, ILP Facilitator, comes in. "They found my sweet spot," said Traci, referring to her work in the program supporting people with disabilities. She began working for our Hankering for More (HFM) program, posting on social media and later added ILP in 2012. "ILP gives you a different view and perspective on life,” Traci said. 

 

Once a cheerleader in junior high school, Traci plays that role in ILP, where she motivates group members to look at things differently.

 

While describing her past struggles, she could see the expression on Marc's face. "You could tell he was thinking, 'Wow, I'm not the only one who has this problem. There are others,'" Traci said.

 

"She glows during group discussions and when she sees people changing over the 26 weeks," Gail Ryan, ILP Supervisor, said. "The knowledge she brings from her own personal journey and the candidness with which she speaks sets her apart."

 

Having lived in YAI's supported apartments in Jackson Heights around 2008, Traci moved into an Individual Support Services apartment three years ago with her fiance, Josh Magolnick.

 

"I explain that being shy, having a speech impediment or being uncomfortable socializing with others is nothing compared to other huge problems," she said. "What they have is not that bad. They feel uncomfortable mainly because they are not accepting themselves."

 

Traci never imagined living independently until she woke up as a 27-year-old and decided she needed to accept herself. It wasn’t always easy. "Living independently can be a handful," she said. "But it feels so great to do things by yourself. And when I need some support, I can get staff in for an hour-and-a-half to help me."

 

Marc's mother can see how Traci is helping her son and sent an email to Gail. "I am happy and thrilled to say that he is learning and excited about attending," Diana wrote. "I couldn't think of anyone better to run this program. [Traci] is witty, smart and so giving of herself. She is showing the group and the parents that anything is possible and that any dream can be achieved if you work hard at it."

 

"I feel like I'm having a huge impact," Traci said. "Everyone can change and improve their life. You just have to believe in yourself and go for it."