For people with developmental disabilities, progress is measured in different ways. While some may go on to find jobs, others may increase their independence and move into a supported apartment, and some may even get married. But for individuals with more profound disabilities, progress is not always measured in major events and it is important to celebrate the individual achievements of everyone.

For proud mom Shelley, a moment of true progress came during a barbecue at a YAI Network group residence in Hastings, where her 23-year-old son Dan has lived for three years.    

“I shared a hot dog with my son,” Shelley beamed. “It’s something you’re supposed to share with your child.”

This was a huge step for Dan, who has an intellectual disability, cerebral palsy and is blind. He has always been a particularly picky eater but over time, staff at the group residence and at YAI’s Tarrytown Day Services have helped Dan overcome his eating challenges, as well guide him to become more independent.

For Shelley, this special milestone was more than about sharing a meal – it was about sharing with Dan a small but meaningful moment of personal growth.

“YAI is giving Dan the life I wanted for him,” Shelley said. “Dan has thrived. He’s happy and he’s doing things he has never done before. It’s what every parent wants for their child.”